Why Life Feels Harder Than It Used To

For most of human history, life wasn’t experienced as a constant struggle or a problem to solve.

Early humans lived with far less chronic disease or anxiety about the future, and far more time for rest, connection, and simple enjoyment of being alive. Life wasn’t easy or safe, but it worked. People responded directly to what was real, rather than living inside continuous mental planning and worry.

In my latest Substack article, I explore what changed.

Around 12,000 years ago, humans developed more complex language and, with it, the ability to mentally leave the present moment. This shift allowed us to imagine future scenarios, worry about threats that weren’t happening, and organise life around constant planning and control. While this led to agriculture and civilisation, it also introduced longer working lives, declining health, and a background level of stress that has become normal in modern life.

The article looks at the difference between living by instinct and living through constant thought, and why the human brain was never designed to be run by an inner narrative. It also explores what becomes possible when instinct is allowed to return to its natural role, not by changing thoughts, but by stepping out of the story they create.

You can read the full article on Substack here:
The Most Successful Humans Who Ever Lived – And the Quiet Truth We Left Behind


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